MegaPhases: By MC Civil Writes aka Me Nigga

First things first.

Fellas, if you just started talkin to a female, understand this..... you are not the only one. Accepting this fact will make you and your lady friends relationship much easier.

That being said, women use the fact that there a hot commodity way more effective than men do. Yea, when you first meet, she's into you, she wants to get to know you... your kinda of the priority, for a couple weeks. In the mean time, she is talkin to a couple dudes who are in phases 2 and 3 of there relationship. They have already been the priority, and there trying to keep themselves relevant. She keeps them around so she'll never be lonely.

Eventually, you will fade into phase # 2 and # 3 with the rest of the other guys... but you dont know this. Your still going hard, tryna impress her as if your in Phase #1.. little do you know, she's just entered phase #1 with another guy...

Lets do the math, she has a new fling... you, and lord knows how many other guys are expending energy as if your on phase one. She's only expending phase one energy on her new fling.

The female will then continue this cycle, have a roster of guys going hard at her, while she's only goin hard at whoever's hot at the moment. She gets to sit back, pick and choose whats she wants to do w/ those guys. Meanwhile, this girl always gives you that one or two days out the week where you feel like your in phase one. Its all part of the game fellas.

Now, girls will say 'well, its the fellas job to come after the female' and to an extent there right, but theres a difference between showin interest, and just being thirsty. Some men realize there in a rotation and move on, or decide to just fight it out, not even knowin that there former phase # 1 time is constantly being juggled by w.e guy caught her eye that week. She actually STILL MIGHT LIKE YOU. So your not gettin 'played' by definition.

Its tricky & most women end up lonley playing this little game. Most men end up being whore because the one chick they wanted to take serious, is playing games with them.

Thats life, thats women. Figure your own solution.

Stay tuned... *Finger Snaps*

'I act like i dont know, but I be knowin...' (c) Allen Collins

*Disclaimer*

Of course this is not ALL women. Nothing pertains to ALL women...